Gold Toi et Moi Necklace
A classic then, a classic now.
Translating to “you & me” in French, toi et moi jewelry has been around since the 1700s (romantic, right?) but you’ve never seen it done quite like this.
Choose two subtle birthstones—one to represent you, one to represent your loved one—and wear with anything and everything. We specifically chose these birthstones to be muted and easy to style, so you can love them for a lifetime.
To order, choose a Grand Baguette birthstone (that’s the larger pendant) and an Aura birthstone (that’s the smaller pendant)! Also available in sterling silver and solid gold.
Please note: We intentionally curated this palette using a variety of lab-made stones and natural gemstones (see product details for more info). Expect natural variances in color across pieces; no two gemstones are alike, and may not mirror the photos exactly.
More premium than traditional gold plating, vermeil is an extra thick layer of real gold over solid sterling silver. We use 14k or 18k gold depending on the piece.
Want even more details about materials? Check this out.
- Find a tool to use (string, dental floss, headphone cord, measuring tape if you have it).
- Find the length by wrapping it around your neck and marking it (for pendants, imagine the jewelry lower, for suspended, it should be in line).
- Check the length against a ruler or lay it out flat and measure with a phone app.
Alternatively: Measure an existing necklace end to end with a ruler (most accurate) or a phone app (great if you don't have a ruler handy).
100% USA sourced
gold and silver
in our WA. studio
Styled With
- LLucyVerified BuyerBought For Myself3 days agoBought For MyselfReviewingGold Toi et Moi Necklace Vermeil / Serene Amethyst (Feb.) / Sage Peridot (Aug.)Rated 5 out of 5 starsLove it
I bought this for myself for giving birth to my daughter this year. I think it's perfect to represent us - the big one in Amethyst is me and she's the small one in Peridot. Mother and daughter. I like that the gemstones are more muted in color. I read someone's review that they think the chain is cheap, but I love it. It's dainty without being fragile like some other chains I've seen. I requested that they make the chain 15-17 inches and they did. Would recommend
- KKayla1 week agoReviewingGold Toi et Moi Necklace Vermeil / Sage Peridot (Aug.) / Clear Sapphire (Apr.)Rated 5 out of 5 stars5 Stars
I got this necklace for my mom for Mother’s Day. She is in love with it and hasn’t taken it off since! The chain did break when she yanked it by accident but it hasn’t tarnished at all and she just put it on a new chain.
- SUStephanie U.Verified BuyerBought For Myself1 month agoBought For MyselfReviewingGold Toi et Moi NecklaceRated 5 out of 5 starsFavorite Piece to Wear
Bought this to represent my two sons, one living and one passed. Perfect way to keep them with me, while still being simple and elegant.
- CCherie2 months agoReviewingGold Toi et Moi Necklace Vermeil / Sage Peridot (Aug.) / Sage Peridot (Aug.)Rated 4 out of 5 stars4 Stars
I loved it!
- JCjonathan c.Verified BuyerBought For A Gift2 months agoBought For A GiftReviewingGold Toi et Moi Necklace Vermeil / Clear Sapphire (Apr.) / Subtle Ruby (Jul.)Rated 1 out of 5 starsCheap: continuously tangled chain and chipping gold
I'm super disappointed with this purchase. After opening the box, the chain immediately looped itself into a horrific knot, and the gold was also already chipping from the chain (leaving behind an ugly spot of dark metal underneath. I strongly advise against purchasing this on account of the chain.
GGLDN1 month agoWe’re so sorry this happened. We have a 6-month warranty and we’d love to help with your chain! Our Care Team will email you with more information.
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