Silver Toi et Moi Necklace

YOU & ME NECKLACE IN STERLING SILVER

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A classic then, a classic now.

Translating to “you & me” in French, toi et moi jewelry has been around since the 1700s (romantic, right?) but you’ve never seen it done quite like this.

Choose two subtle birthstones—one to represent you, one to represent your loved one—and wear with anything and everything. We specifically chose these birthstones to be muted and easy to style, so you can love them for a lifetime.

To order, choose a Grand Baguette birthstone (that’s the larger pendant) and an Aura birthstone (that’s the smaller pendant)! Also available in gold vermeil and solid gold.

Please note: we use a combo of lab-grown and genuine gemstones in this piece (see product details for specifics)! Expect natural variances in color across pieces; no two gemstones are alike, and may not mirror the photos exactly.

Product Details

○ 6x4mm baguette and 3mm round gemstone

○ Gemstones in order by month: garnet crystal, natural amethyst, lab grown topaz, lab-grown white sapphire, lab-grown emerald spinel, natural rainbow moonstone, lab-grown ruby crystal, lab-grown sage spinel, lab-grown midnight sapphire crystal, lab-grown pink tourmaline crystal, natural citrine, lab-grown tanzanite crystal

○ Adjustable 16-18" Dainty Cable chain (1.2mm wide)

○ Sterling Silver

Materials

Sterling Silver

Ease of care: 4/5

Solid, precious metal that lasts forever. It darkens with time, but can be polished up. Oils from your skin help prevent silver tarnish... so wear it often!

Want even more details about materials? Check this out.

Sizing Guide

Find a tool to use (string, dental floss, headphone cord, measuring tape if you have it).
Find the length by wrapping it around your neck and marking it (for pendants, imagine the jewelry lower, for suspended, it should be in line).
Check the length against a ruler or lay it out flat and measure with a phone app.

Alternatively: Measure an existing necklace end to end with a ruler (most accurate) or a phone app (great if you don’t have a ruler handy).

Return Policies

Returns
Didn’t absolutely love your jewelry? Send it back for a refund (minus an $8 shipping & handling fee) within 30 days of your delivery date. Your return will be processed 1-2 weeks after we receive your return.

Exchanges
Need a different size, want to change your personalization or prefer a totally different item? Send it back and we’ll give you store credit (in a digital gift card) to use whenever—free up to 6 months, processed as soon as your return package is shipped.

Repairs
We offer free repairs for up to 6 months (for most items) or up to 3 years for solid gold, processed 1-2 weeks after we receive your piece(s). Pricing varies on older orders.

Final Sale
Returns and exchanges aren’t available for final sale items.

GLDN GIVING PROGRAM

We’re proud to donate 10% of profits to empowering organizations that help defend rights and freedoms, promote mental wellness, support the arts and more causes near and dear to us.

Raw materials
100% USA sourced

Made from recycled
gold and silver

Handmade for you
in our WA. studio

FAQs

All you need to know about the Silver Toi et Moi Necklace.

Find answers to our most-asked questions here, from care tips to jewelry options and more.

Since it depends on which metal you chose, see our care tips blog and help center for detailed instructions on how to care for specific metals and gemstones. (Spoiler: all of our pieces require very minimal upkeep and occasional polishing, and can basically be worn 24/7 if you keep them away from harsh cleansers, chlorine and chemicals.)

It varies based on where you are in the world, and whether the piece is marked made-to-order or ready-to-ship. See our shipping page for specific arrival times.

Yes! We have a full happiness guarantee for every piece, even personalized ones. See our Return Policies for full info on returns, repairs and exchanges.

This piece (along with the rest of the Aura Birthstones) offer a fresh take on traditional birthstones: a more subtle, refined color for everyday wear. They're inspired by the birthstones of the past, but made for modern-day.

We thought birthstones were in time for an upgrade. While we took inspiration from the traditional shades and didn't stray too far, we gave them a modern twist: subtler shades that actually stack well together and look good worn 24/7.

Silver Toi et Moi Necklace

Silver Toi et Moi Necklace

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