More durable, scratch-resistant and affordable than its 14k counterpart, 10k solid gold offers a softer, subtler tone—ideal for those who prefer a less intense yellow.
Solid Gold Toi et Moi Necklace
YOU & ME GEMSTONE NECKLACE IN SOLID GOLD
Rated 4.9 out of 5 stars
7 Reviews
Price $358
A classic then, a classic now.
Translating to “you & me” in French, toi et moi jewelry has been around since the 1700s (romantic, right?) but you’ve never seen it done quite like this.
Choose two subtle birthstones—one to represent you, one to represent your loved one—and wear with anything and everything. We specifically chose these birthstones to be muted and easy to style, so you can love them for a lifetime.
To order, choose a Grand Baguette birthstone (that’s the larger pendant) and an Aura birthstone (that’s the smaller pendant)! Also available in sterling silver and gold vermeil.
Please note: we use a combo of lab-grown and genuine gemstones in this piece (see product details for specifics)! Expect natural variances in color across pieces; no two gemstones are alike, and may not mirror the photos exactly.
Product Details
Materials
10k Solid Gold
Ease of care: 5/5
Want even more details about materials? Check this out.
Sizing Guide
- Find a tool to use (string, dental floss, headphone cord, measuring tape if you have it).
- Find the length by wrapping it around your neck and marking it (for pendants, imagine the jewelry lower, for suspended, it should be in line).
- Check the length against a ruler or lay it out flat and measure with a phone app.
Alternatively: Measure an existing necklace end to end with a ruler (most accurate) or a phone app (great if you don’t have a ruler handy).
Return Policies
GLDN GIVING PROGRAM
We’re proud to donate 10% of profits to empowering organizations that help defend rights and freedoms, promote mental wellness, support the arts and more causes near and dear to us.
Raw materials
100% USA sourced
100% USA sourced
Made from recycled
gold and silver
gold and silver
Handmade for you
in our WA. studio
in our WA. studio
FAQs
All you need to know about the Solid Gold Toi et Moi Necklace.
Find answers to our most-asked questions here, from care tips to jewelry options and more.
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- BSCollectorBrooke S.Verified BuyerBought For MyselfAchieved: Join the loyalty programJoin the loyalty programAchieved: Earn loyalty points 5 timesEarn loyalty points 5 timesAchieved: Leave a reviewLeave a review2 weeks agoBought For MyselfReviewingSolid Gold Toi et Moi NecklaceRated 5 out of 5 starsBeautiful Necklace!
I bought this necklace in memory of my mom, it’s both of our birthstones together. I absolutely love how beautiful and dainty it is, and the solid gold is stunning.
GGLDN24 seconds agoHearing the story behind this piece gives it so much more meaning! Thank you for sharing 💛
- ABCollectorAmara B.Verified BuyerBought For A GiftAchieved: Join the loyalty programJoin the loyalty programAchieved: Earn loyalty points 10 timesEarn loyalty points 10 timesAchieved: Leave 3 reviewsLeave 3 reviews3 weeks agoBought For A GiftReviewingSolid Gold Toi et Moi NecklaceRated 5 out of 5 starsBeautifully crafted
I absolutely love how beautifully this was made. I gave them as gifts.
GGLDN1 week agoWhat a beautiful gift to give!
- LDevoteeLizzieVerified ReviewerBought For A GiftAchieved: Join the loyalty programJoin the loyalty programAchieved: Earn loyalty points 5 timesEarn loyalty points 5 timesAchieved: Leave a reviewLeave a review2 months agoBought For A GiftReviewingSolid Gold Toi et Moi NecklaceRated 5 out of 5 starsLOVE!!
Absolutely love this necklace! I got it as a gift. The bigger aura gemstone is October for my baby, and the smaller baguette is January for me. Their garnet is a little more mauve toned- super pretty. I ordered an April stone for my boyfriend’s birthday month. Necklace came really fast from Washington- we’re in Arizona :) also ordered the liquid gold chain in 15-17”, I have it on the longest link.
GGLDN1 month agoThese look so sweet together! 💕
- MPCollectorMadison P.Verified BuyerBought For MyselfAchieved: Join the loyalty programJoin the loyalty programAchieved: Earn loyalty points 7 timesEarn loyalty points 7 timesAchieved: Leave a reviewLeave a review2 months agoBought For MyselfReviewingSolid Gold Toi et Moi Necklace 10k Solid Gold / Clear Sapphire (Apr.) / Sunshine Citrine (Nov.)Rated 5 out of 5 starsBeautiful and delicate
I love my necklace. I got my birthstone and my newborn son’s.
GGLDN1 month agoThanks for letting us make something special for you! 🥰
- ALCollectorAllyssa L.Verified BuyerBought For MyselfAchieved: Join the loyalty programJoin the loyalty programAchieved: Earn loyalty points 5 timesEarn loyalty points 5 timesAchieved: Leave a reviewLeave a review2 months agoBought For MyselfReviewingSolid Gold Toi et Moi Necklace 10k Solid Gold / Vintage Garnet (Jan.) / Sage Peridot (Aug.)Rated 5 out of 5 starsBeautiful, meaningful piece
I purchased two of these necklaces as deeply sentimental pieces for myself and my mother, and it exceeded every expectation. When the necklaces arrived, they were absolutely stunning, timeless, elegant, and even more beautiful in person.
What truly set this experience apart was GLDN’s customer support team. They kindly helped me adjust the chain length to make it absolutely perfect, and they handled everything with such care and compassion. This necklace is more than just jewelry to me, but now a memorial piece I’ll carry forever. I’m so grateful for both the craftsmanship and the humanity behind this brand, and I will absolutely be purchasing from GLDN again.
GGLDN1 month agoWe're so happy we got to make something so special for you both! Your kind feedback truly means so much to all of us at GLDN 💛
