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Solid Gold Toi et Moi Necklace

Solid Gold Toi et Moi Necklace

$358
YOU & ME GEMSTONE NECKLACE IN SOLID GOLD
4.9
Rated 4.9 out of 5 stars
9 Reviews
9 REVIEWS
Material10k Solid Gold
Grand Baguette Pendant Gemstone
Aura Birthstone Pendant Gemstone
Length Size Help
MADE TO ORDER: Handcrafted within 4-7 business days
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A classic then, a classic now.



Translating to “you & me” in French, toi et moi jewelry has been around since the 1700s (romantic, right?) but you’ve never seen it done quite like this.



Choose two birthstones—one to represent you, one to represent your loved one.  The elevated, subtle palette of these birthstones makes them easy to style and wear with anything and everything.



To order, choose a Grand Baguette birthstone (that’s the larger pendant) and an Aura birthstone (that’s the smaller pendant)! Also available in sterling silver and gold vermeil.

 

Please note: We intentionally curated this palette using a variety of lab-made stones and natural gemstones (see product details for more info). Expect natural variances in color across pieces; no two gemstones are alike, and may not mirror the photos exactly.
○6x4mm baguette and 3mm round gemstone
○Stones: garnet zirconia, natural amethyst, lab grown blue topaz, lab-grown white sapphire, emerald spinel, natural moonstone, subtle ruby crystal, sage green spinel, midnight sapphire crystal, pink tourmaline crystal, natural opal, natural citrine, indigo tanzanite crystal
○Adjustable 16-18" Fine Cable chain (1mm wide)
○10k Solid Gold
10k Solid Gold
10k Solid Gold
Ease of care: 5/5

More durable, scratch-resistant and affordable than its 14k counterpart, 10k solid gold offers a softer, subtler tone—ideal for those who prefer a less intense yellow.

Want even more details about materials? Check this out.

  1. Find a tool to use (string, dental floss, headphone cord, measuring tape if you have it).
  2. Find the length by wrapping it around your neck and marking it (for pendants, imagine the jewelry lower, for suspended, it should be in line).
  3. Check the length against a ruler or lay it out flat and measure with a phone app.

Alternatively: Measure an existing necklace end to end with a ruler (most accurate) or a phone app (great if you don't have a ruler handy).

Returns
Didn't absolutely love your jewelry? Send it back for a refund (minus an $8 shipping & handling fee) within 30 days of your delivery date. Your return will be processed 1-2 weeks after we receive your return.

Exchanges
Need a different size, want to change your personalization or prefer a totally different item? Send it back and we'll give you store credit (in a digital gift card) to use whenever — free up to 6 months, processed as soon as your return package is shipped.

Repairs
We offer free repairs for up to 6 months (for most items) or up to 3 years for solid gold, processed 1-2 weeks after we receive your piece(s). Pricing varies on older orders.

Final Sale
Returns and exchanges aren't available for final sale items.

USA Sourced Raw materials
100% USA sourced
Recycled Made from recycled
gold and silver
Handmade Handmade for you
in our WA. studio
FAQS

All you need to know about the Solid Gold Toi et Moi Necklace.

Find answers to our most-asked questions here, from care tips to jewelry options and more.

How do I care for this piece of jewelry?

Since it depends on which metal you chose, see our care tips blog and help center for detailed instructions on how to care for specific metals and gemstones. (Spoiler: all of our pieces require very minimal upkeep and occasional polishing, and can basically be worn 24/7 if you keep them away from harsh cleansers, chlorine and chemicals.)

What are the shipping options for this piece?

It varies based on where you are in the world, and whether the piece is marked made-to-order or ready-to-ship. See our shipping page for specific arrival times.

Can I return this piece? What’s the return policy?

Yes! We have a full happiness guarantee for every piece, even personalized ones. See our Return Policies for full info on returns, repairs and exchanges.

Are these colors different than traditional birthstones?

This piece (along with the rest of the Aura Birthstones) offer a fresh take on traditional birthstones: a more subtle, refined color for everyday wear. They're inspired by the birthstones of the past, but made for modern-day.

Why are these colors different than traditional birthstone colors?

We thought birthstones were in time for an upgrade. While we took inspiration from the traditional shades and didn't stray too far, we gave them a modern twist: subtler shades that actually stack well together and look good worn 24/7.

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  • LR
    Lana R.
    Verified Buyer
    Bought For Myself
    1 week ago
    Bought For Myself
    Reviewing
    Solid Gold Toi et Moi Necklace 10k Solid Gold / Indigo Tanzanite (Dec.) / Forest Emerald (May)
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Very pretty necklace

    Love this piece and I wear it often. The gemstone colors are particularly gorgeous.

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    Amber H.
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    Bought For Myself
    3 months ago
    Bought For Myself
    Reviewing
    Solid Gold Toi et Moi Necklace 10k Solid Gold / Blush Tourmaline (Oct.) / Blush Tourmaline (Oct.)
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    I love my custom Mother’s necklace!

    I’d been researching for awhile to figure out how to represent my girls born 3 years apart but both in October. I love how the Toi et Moi has the variation of size of birth stone color and that they even ended up having slight tonal variations. And then it was fun to pair it with a cosmos stamped disk to pull in my newfound love for birth flower symbolism. It feels so special and high quality. I couldn’t be happier!

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    GLDN
    2 weeks ago

    It is a beautiful combination of charms. Your happiness is our #1 goal, and we are smiling that it was achieved. 😀

  • BS
    Brooke S.
    Verified Buyer
    Bought For Myself
    4 months ago
    Bought For Myself
    Reviewing
    Solid Gold Toi et Moi Necklace 10k Solid Gold / Midnight Sapphire (Sep.) / Airy Aquamarine (Mar.)
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Beautiful Necklace!

    I bought this necklace in memory of my mom, it’s both of our birthstones together. I absolutely love how beautiful and dainty it is, and the solid gold is stunning.

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    GLDN
    4 months ago

    Hearing the story behind this piece gives it so much more meaning! Thank you for sharing 💛

  • AB
    Amara B.
    Verified Buyer
    Bought For A Gift
    4 months ago
    Bought For A Gift
    Reviewing
    Solid Gold Toi et Moi Necklace 10k Solid Gold / Indigo Tanzanite (Dec.) / Clear Sapphire (Apr.)
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Beautifully crafted

    I absolutely love how beautifully this was made. I gave them as gifts.

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    GLDN
    4 months ago

    What a beautiful gift to give!

  • DM
    Diana M.
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    Bought For Myself
    5 months ago
    Bought For Myself
    Reviewing
    Solid Gold Toi et Moi Necklace 10k Solid Gold / Vintage Garnet (Jan.) / Clear Sapphire (Apr.)
    Rated 4 out of 5 stars
    Really great quality!

    This necklace is beautiful and great quality! I just wish that the pendants were a bit bigger. They are smaller than I thought they would be but still delicate looking.

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    GLDN
    4 months ago

    Thanks so much for sharing your feedback.

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